How To Raise A Happy Child
Smart Parenting Tip #1: Praise And Rewards Praise... encouraging words... and intangible rewards... hugs, time with your child, etc. is an effective method of encouraging good behavior. Simply giving your child spontaneous expressions of appreciation or acknowledgement when she is not misbehaving will act as a reinforcer for good behavior. It is very common for children who are otherwise ignored by their parents to turn to misbehavior as a way of seeking attention. On the other hand, you may wait until your child calms down and speaks politely, then reward the more polite behavior with the attention. It is essential to also praise your child for every good attempt she makes, regardless if she actually succeeded or not. If she is praised for trying hard, she will learn a valuable lesson for life, that effort and perseverance are more important than instant success. Over praising can have a negative effect on your child, setting her up for...