Do you know what all children are capable of doing?
Children have hands, feet, head and are perfectly capable of doing a lot of things - but unfortunately only when their parents really allow it.
We are aware that children must acquire good working habits
from an early age. However, parents are the ones most often of their own and
those who are capable of making small incapacitated souls because they seem to
have children simply do not have to work because they are - children. Then came
the school. The first examinations of the maturity of acquired work habits on
which children fall regularly. No, the class does not fall, but struggle with
tasks, new duties and new obligations simply become too heavy for them. They
would rather play and rest because they did not get the right work habits.
After all, even now, when they go to school, they have nothing to be tired of
housework, it is up to them to sit down and learn.
Well, it's a mistake parents make thinking that childhood
should pass without any worries - and children are, they will not have to clean
the child behind and carry bags from the store. Or to swing with a knife,
scissors and mowers - and not that it's too dangerous, it should be forbidden for
children until the age of majority.
Do you think that kids cannot overcome it? Will they cut off
or will their hands fall when they carry a garbage bag? Are you so much
underestimating those little beings who are not only capable of all this, they
are capable of much more. Only when they were given a chance to show it. Eh,
how happy children are parents who "want" to work as they walk. Eh,
how such children are just proud of their work, because that pride does not
give them any play and no lying on the couches! Believe me!
And if you think that your child is not capable of working
habits and a bunch of jobs that can be assigned to them on a daily basis,
consider again and dash into a small guide to the Montessori School, in which
each child's age suggests those home jobs that are both how and how appropriate
to their abilities. Of course not everyone needs to be applied, but only to
know - children are capable of all this.
At the age of 2-3 years
Pick up the
toys in the box
Put booklets
on the shelf
Put the
dirty clothes in the washbasin
Throw
something in the trash
Get your
clothes off
Set the
table
Get your
diapers
Wipe dust
from the floor
At the age of 3 to 5 years (all previously plus :)
Clean the
room
Wipe it
after something sheds
Cook and
wipe dishes
Feed the pet
Make a bed
Plant the
plants
Use a vacuum
cleaner
Prepare a
simple sandwich
At the age of 5 to 7 years (all previously plus :)
Throw trash
Wipe the
floors
Fold the
towels
Empty the
dishwasher
Pay the bait
Pick up the
leaves
Sweep up
Make a salad
Peel
potatoes and carrots
Wash the
dishes
Replace the
roll of larger paper
At the age of 7 to 9 years (all previously plus :)
Stir and
wipe the table after the meal
Fill and
turn on the dishwasher
Put the
laundry in the washing machine
Remove and
clean clean laundry
Wash food
Go to the
store
Rip the
terrace / yard with water hose
Wet the eggs
Burn the
cookie
Walk around
the dog
At the age of 9 to 12 years (all previously plus :)
Prepare a
simple meal
Wash the
bath
Thoroughly
clean the kitchen
Wipe dust
Dust the
carpets
Grab the
lawn
Shut the
button
At the age of 12 and more (all previously plus :)
Make small
repairs around the house
Change the
bulb
Clean the
car
Painting the
wall
Cure the
hedgehog
Prepare
dinner
Wash the
windows
Cure the
hedgehog
Whistle
clothes
Keep younger
brothers and sisters
The list is generally appropriate for each individual age,
and whether some things from your child's list will work or not, does not
depend solely on his ability. It primarily depends on whether you underestimate
the ability of your child and whether the child is generally learned about
minor jobs that will give them importance and that in later life and growing up
will be not only independent but also more willing to become equal members of
the family, and then societies.
They can and in fact never be late for getting good working
habits - just do not think it's a shame that the child does. Unfortunately,
there are many parents who raise their children with such attitudes.
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